How to ‘Do You’ with Your Boo
When falling in love, sometimes you start to forget who you are in order to impress the other person meaning by showing that you are ready to please. By doing this, you start hiding your weaknesses and other attributes that really make up who you truly are. As a relationship progresses, it is nearly impossible to hide all emotions and that they will eventually show to the other person.
It’s okay to say what is on your mind. Don’t be afraid of disagreeing with him about your favorite music, television show, color, or even politics. You don’t have to like everything he likes. Your boo will respect you for who you are and what you have to say and you should do the same for him.
Don’t stress over insecurities. If you are worried about your body and whether or not you are attractive to him, stop it! If they are seriously considering a relationship with you, the things that you are worried about that make you insecure obviously don’t bother him, so own up to your insecurities and focus on the positives about yourself.
Share your interests. He is probably showing you his interests and hobbies, so why don’t you do the same. He might not enjoy it as much as you do, but at least you can give an opportunity to show what kinds of things you like and other activities that again, make you who you truly are.
Get away from jealous feelings. Confidence is the most important feeling to maintain. If he is meant to be with you, then you should not have to worry about what others think about them and whether or not every other guy or girl is hitting on them. He is with you now.
Relax. Don’t rush or move too fast in a building relationship. Take it easy and relax. Enjoy each moment and stop trying to be someone else. Your partner will like you for being yourself and who you really are.
